14 Essential Rules for First Dates That Women Should Know!
The dream first date that girls aspire to is no longer just an exciting matter. Use our 14 essential rules, and you're sure to have the guy you like calling you after the first date!
1. Keep Your Makeup Simple No need for heavy makeup; a light touch is best. If you're confident, just apply some powder. Don't set high expectations on the first date; save some for dates 2, 3, and 4. We want to feel comfortable, not overly dressed and then surprised by how we look!
2. Dress Casually You don't have to look your absolute best on the first date. Just dress appropriately for the venue. This will help your date feel more at ease too.
3. Shoes Matter Yes, high heels can make you look taller and more elegant, but what if your date is shorter than the average Thai man? It may seem trivial, but it's better not to overshadow him.
4. Choose a New Restaurant for the Date Avoid going to your usual spot. Even if it's your favorite, the staff will recognize you, and it won't be hard to notice that your behavior has changed. We don't want anyone gossiping about us!
5. Eat Like a Normal Person If you order a salad as your main dish but only eat half, your date won't think you're just petite or a light eater. Instead, they'll find it odd that you only ate that much and then claimed to be full. Eat normally, just like you would at any meal; no need to pretend you're not hungry.
6. Don't Get Drunk Getting drunk on a first date is a big no-no. That doesn't mean you can't have a drink or two to loosen up, but anything more than that is a bad idea.
7. Absolutely No! (very loudly) Don't be the one to mention a second date first. Avoid asking about family and try not to talk too much.
8. Forget Your Phone If this date is the one full of hope, the final chance, or the date of your life, don't take your phone out to play or chat. Focus on the opportunity right in front of you.
9. During the Conversation If your date mentions a close friend and says their name, remember it! Guys appreciate it when you pay attention to the little details they share, even if it's about someone you don't know.
10. Share Some Personal Stories Guys want to hear about you too! Share some light stories or funny anecdotes. This is important because a second date often comes from the enjoyable moments shared during the first date.
11. Not the Right Time for Your EX Um, no! Don't bring them up at all. Even if they pop into your head, keep it to yourself. There are plenty of other topics to discuss.
12. Restaurants Aren't the Only Option for a First Date Consider suggesting other activities that aren't too heavy or overwhelming, like meeting at a park or strolling through a flea market that happens almost every weekend. It's way more fun!
13. Check, Please! When the bill arrives, be eager to grab your wallet and be ready to pay until he says, “It's okay.” If there's no mention of it, it likely means you should split the bill. A first date doesn't mean he has to pay for everything.
14. Timing Matters The date doesn't have to be long; 45-60 minutes is enough. Keep some distance to ensure a second date follows closely after.
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